I speak internationally on relationships, sexual culture, youth and media influences, and have had the privilege of delivering a TEDx talk.

Speaking

Speaking

Ever since I was a kid, I have enjoyed public speaking, I clearly remember the school speech competition being the one thing I felt good at. There’s always nerves, but there's also nothing like that rush you get from connecting with an audience and knowing you've brought some joy or reflection into their day.

I enjoy the challenge of breaking down ideas and sharing them in a way that's not just easy to comprehend but highly engaging. When I’m up front, my mission is simple – to make sure everyone in the room not only enjoys the ride but walks away with a new take on things. If an audience has gifted me with a precious resource, their time, then it’s my responsibility to offer something of value back.

Parents Talks

Wanting to equip the parents and caregivers in your school or community?
I offer 3 parenting talks, which can be altered for your unique audience.

  • Beyond the Screen: Parenting in the Digital Era. (1.5hr)
  • Tricky Chats: Screens, Safety & Sexual Wellbeing (2hr)
  • Keeping Kids Safe: Consent & Sexual Harm (1.5hr)

Beyond the Screen : Parenting in the Digital Era 1.5hr

This session will explore the online world that kids navigate today, identifying potential risks and strategies for addressing them. The workshop will cover porn, exploitation, popular apps and filters. Evidence based and expert led, you will leave with strategies on how to prevent and respond to harm.

Tricky Chats : Screens, Safety & Sexual Wellbeing 2hr

Keeping kids safe from sexual harm—both online and offline. Learn where children are vulnerable, how to discuss consent, and what to do if harm occurs. We’ll explore online risks like porn and exploitation, plus strategies for safer internet use. Gain practical tools for age-appropriate conversations about sex, puberty, and media literacy. Leave with research-backed strategies to prevent harm, respond effectively, and foster open, confident discussions with your child.

(The full Tricky Chats workshop covers a broader range of topics but in less detail)

Keeping Kids Safe : Consent & Sexual Harm 1.5hr

Workshop on keeping children safe from sexual harm. We’ll explore where kids are most vulnerable, how to talk about consent in an age-appropriate way, and what steps to take if harm occurs. Learn about online exploitation, effective conversation starters, and when to seek help. Gain practical tools to foster open, confident discussions that empower and protect children.

Recent and upcoming workshops:

  • ADHB Peer Sexuality Support Programme - speaking to 80 teenagers on developing healthy relationships.
  • Unity Studios: Keeping Kids Safe: Consent & Sexual Harm
  • Waimauku Primary School: Beyond the Screen: Parenting in the Digital Era.
  • Heal Health & Wellbeing, Napier: Beyond the Screen: Parenting in the Digital Era.

Fee:

1500 + GST for any workshop up to 2 hours

$2000 + GST for any workshop outside of Auckland

  • Travel & Accommodation costs must be covered if outside of Auckland.
  • Includes spot prizes and attendees getting 30% off full Tricky Chats Online Parenting Course

I suggest talks start no earlier than 7pm to ensure parents are able to get younger children to bed before leaving home. Online webinars are available for a reduced fee of $1000 + GST, however my experience is that in person workshops create a safer environment for parents to ask questions and reduce personal triggers.

AV Requirements:

  • Powerpoint/Projector
  • Microphone if audience is greater than 100 people

For all enquiries, please contact me via the speaker booking form.

Sex & Relationship Talks

I provide a variety of sex and relationship talks, customized for your group’s needs. Sessions range from Q&A discussions and lecture-style presentations to interactive workshops that encourage participant reflection.

Recent talks:

  • My Food Bag Women's Networking Event: 1 hr Q&A Style “Women in Leadership, Work/Life Balance & Healthy Relationships”
  • Moccona Staff Breakfast: 20 min talk followed by 10 mins Q&A “Relationships & Parenting”
  • AUT: Healthy Sex, Healthy Relationships. 3x 2 hour workshops
  • NZCCA: ‘Interruptions to Intimacy’ full day training. “What therapists need to know about sex & betrayal therapy”

Fees vary.

For podcast and speaking enquiries, please contact me via the speaker booking form.

Want me to speak at your next event?

I’m so glad you made your way here - I consider it a real privilege to be asked into peoples groups & spaces. Please fill in the form below and I’ll be in touch.

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